A Tale of Two Families
When folks come to the CELL Program support groups we ask them to tell us their story and to allow us to monitor their progress. Because most of our patients have suffered the heartbreak of obesity for a very long time before they come to us as their “last ditch effort” we ask them to give us an extensive history of their eating habits, tell us how they prepare food and what their family dynamic is.
The CELL Program believes that it is difficult for one person in a family to “diet” while others go about eating without regard to them. We usually challenge them to put their family on the program. We ask that they tell us if the family even notices the difference.
One woman came to me in tears. She was 200 pounds overweight, her husband was probably 70 pounds overweight and her two children were overweight and taking medication for “hyperactivity.”
I asked her to relate a “typical” days diet.
Here was her reply:
A. H.s Food Diary, February 2003 (the “before”)
In the morning we have cold cereal, the kind with nuts and raisins & honey in it, and I always add a banana to everyones cereal for potassium. We also add a little sugar and milk. The kids drink orange juice and my hubby and I drink coffee with french/vanilla creamer.
By mid morning, I am starved! At break time at work I usually get a cookie or doughnut from the break-room and have another cup of coffee and the non-dairy creamer or a cola ( no! not the diet kind).
The kids buy lunch at school. Since my hubby and I both work downtown in Waco, we meet at a fast food place and just have whatever burger and fry special they have. I do admit to “super-sizing” more than once or twice a week.
During the afternoon I would get that sinking feeling again but its hard to get a break so I usually just have another cola, and, sometimes some nuts or sunflower seeds.
By the time we get home at night we are all too whipped to cook, so I usually put some TV dinners or one of those family lasagnas in the oven while the kids do their homework. We have that with some french bread. We have cola or iced tea (sweetened) to drink and something for dessert, usually ice cream or those packaged puddings and cookies.
If anyone wants a bed time snack they usually pop some popcorn and have a Cola or have cookies and milk.
A. H.
Most of you will recognize this is as a pretty “typical” diet before entering the CELL Program. The reason I titled this, ”A Tale of Two Families,” is that now, a full year later, this familys typical diet is totally different, and they all are doing wonderfully. Mom has lost 77 pounds, Dad has lost 50 pounds, one son has lost 35 pounds and the other 15. Both boys have grown several inches in height during this weight loss.
A. H.s Food Diary, January 2004 (the “after”)
Breakfast: Ham/pepper/mushroom/chive & Egg scramble placed into
2 heated Whole Wheat tortillas and “salsa” added on top
1 large glass of water
1 Banana or Apple
AM Snack: 20 Almonds and 1 large glass of water
LUNCH: Salad (Yep, the same places that sell the fast food burgers and fries also sell salads). We love the kind with grilled chicken in it and I carry my own Berry Berry or Tomato/Bacon dressing and whole wheat croutons. 1 large glass of water The boys both carry their lunch also - usually a ham sandwich on 100% whole wheat bread, sweet potato chips and a fruit.
AFTERNOON SNACK: Either an Apple, Banana chips, or raisins.
SUPPER: For supper we grab our own precut Salad (lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, green peppers, carrots and celery we cut up ourselves) out of the tupperwear container and start eating (using a Cell-approved dressing) while we wait for our fish or chicken to broil. We also have any veggies we want (usually frozen) and we just throw them in the microwave.
The boys usually drink soymilk, and we indulge in peppermint herb tea.
EVENING SNACK: We are hooked on CELL SHAKES. The boys like to try different combinations, last night it was raspberry/banana.
On Saturdays its pretty much the same and on Sundays, we fully enjoy our free days by having foods we cannot eat any other time. Surprisingly, after a few weeks, the family was asking, “do we have to have the “FREE DAYS” ? I honestly have a hard time getting them to eat goodies if there is a big juicy apple or some other fruit in sight. This plan has saved our lives. I wish I could help more people to find out they are committing suicide with food, like we were a year ago.
I dont know how to thank you, Elaine and Dr. Rima.
A. H.
I am assured that this family and many others will be eating the CELL way for the rest of their lives. Mom took the time to evaluate what the family was doing to was cause the weight gain. The family entered the program not knowing that they were on any kind of “diet.” Mom was our patient. She did the cooking and the meal plans. Now that theyve had such wonderful results, everyone knows about the CELL Program. The boys and Dad are our biggest fans. The boys are both doing better in school (yes, OFF medications) and seem to have far less problem concentrating. Grades and grooming have improved for them both.
Elaine